Originally Posted by IsamuAki193
*sigh* All right. Most of this, I disagree with, but there is like one or two things I agree with you on. First off, I agree that Sirius is the type that showed interest in girls when he got bored, but it's not like that's the only time he would do that. Sure, he's a Marauder and one of the popular kids in Hogwarts, and all of the girls loved him, but that doesn't mean he couldn't do the same thing. It's not like he wasn't a normal kid! He has feelings, too, you know. Just because it wasn't shown in the actual books that he had actually loved someone like that, doesn't mean that it never did or could have happened. Everyone makes Sirius out to be a jerk and that he didn't have a heart, but... he did. The sole fact of how much Sirius loved James and the rest of the Marauders (besides Peter after what had happened) just goes to show that he did have a heart. He could care about other people even when he wasn't bored.
Again, it's stereotypical to think that Sirius would go with a girl and not get to know her. What makes everyone think that? It wasn't shown at all that he never showed interest in a girl other than making out or more than that. Once again, this just shows that everyone thinks he doesn't have a heart, and that he doesn't care about the girl's feelings.
*sigh again* I don't think that Sirius would have cared if he was the only single one. He was very independent, and although he did do just about everything with the other Marauders, it doesn't mean that just because they did something, he would. Or that just because they had something, he would want the same thing. I don't think he was like that at all.
Ah, I think he would have taken most of his relationships seriously. I mean, not all of them. He's a guy, and most guys don't take every single relationship they have seriously. There, of course, were probably a lot of girls that Sirius had dated that he really did have feelings for. We were never told that he didn't, but then again we were never told that he did, but why does everyone assume the worse with him? That just.. irritates me.
*tacklesquishes* Leah! I love you so much right now. Lol. You have no idea. I agree with every single thing you said. I have nothing to add! Lol.Originally Posted by leahsm2