
Originally Posted by
cmwinters
Whatever else I think of Sirius Black, I think he was his own person. I do not think he was merely "led astray" by "Gryffindor peer pressure". I think he somewhat deliberately (1) chose Gryffindor over Slytherin, and it wasn't just peer pressure.
However, I don't think he's the "lvoe god" so many fanfictions make him out to be. Yeah, he was good looking, rich, popular, pureblood, smart and whatever-else-Golden-Boy/Gary-Stu-ish. However, he utterly ignored the girls trying to get his attention when he was sixteen, and by sixteen, most boys have hit puberty. And usually, even the gay ones are going after girls.
Now, either he was unbelievably chic and sophisticated (and completely mentally-ill narcissistic, which the behaviour with Harry doesn't support), or he already had someone, or he was gay.
I'd *really* rather he "already had someone else" even if she were the smartest, prettiest & most well-connected of the girls than the other two choices, because the first lends entirely too much credence to the "Gryffindors can do no wrong" mentality, and the last would mean *yet another* somewhat "bad example" (have I mentioned I *detest* Sirius Black?) is the so-called "token gay character".
(I'd rather Dean & Seamus gay than Sirius, because we know them and see them in a "normal" light.)
(1) - have I mentioned how absurdly unfair it is to judge you for the rest of your life based upon a "chioce" you make when you are at the ripe old age of eleven and can't even fully understand the lifetime consequences of this "choice"???