Originally Posted by Morkhan
Alright, now THIS particular sect of the fandom seems to be fairly mature, a credit to you all. Several other sections... well... they're not exactly taking this news in stride.
I've compiled a list of what I believe are very important things to consider when taking into account this new information on our beloved Headmaster.
Second, it is also important to realize that according to Rowling, DD's crush was unrequited. So DD's relationship with Grindelwald was never anything more than friendship: more than likely, Gellert never even knew of DD's feelings. So while I'm sure the fandom will now gain a decent load of Albus/Gellert slash, you must remember that those stories will not be canon. Canon is a one-side crush that goes unnoticed, unrequited, and unmentioned. In my mind, that's even more tragic.
Thirdly, this answer was given in response to the question of whether or not Dumbledore ever loved anyone. Gellert was the only one mentioned, and Rowling refers to this love as 'his great tragedy.' That, to me, suggests that after Gellert, DD never fell in love with anyone else. Of course, Rowling could always reveal something else (or change her mind), but until she does, it seems that Albus never got over his first love.
And finally, I believe that Albus took this secret to the grave with him. Think of it this way: if there had been even the SLIGHTEST inkling of actual evidence that DD was gay, do you think Rita Skeeter would've passed up the chance to put it in her book? Or rather: do you think it would've been anything other than the almost-sole-focus of said book? The woman loves scandal, and that, my friends, would've had scandal written all over it. The fact that, from what we can tell, it's not in the book, suggests to me that DD never told anyone about what he felt.
The less mature people, both in and outside of the fandom, will almost certainly take this revelation as an opportunity to portray Albus as everything from an absolute raging homo, to a pedophile. In light of this, I think it is important that we, at least, have a firm grasp on reality: that Dumbledore was a firmly closeted homosexual in his youth, who had one real instance of falling in love which ended horrifically, who never loved anyone else and who, eventually, became an almost completely non-sexual being, giving himself entirely to his work and his duties within the world and becoming as fulfilled from them as any man can be (I don't think anyone would say Dumbledore's life was a hollow one).
Does this sound like a decent analysis to you guys? Any problems with it?